Why settle! Have fun for now! Smh!!

I'M TIRED of people getting in relationships all the time just to say they got a mate. I'm not gone lie I've done it also, but at some point you got to grow the hell up. Get some common sense damn. I mean most of the time good sex is supposed to be just that. Just because a female/male is attractive doesn't mean yall supposed to be together.lol. this is what happens. You think to yourself, damn he/she fine and the sex was great or the head was great I want to be with them, then yall get all caught up in the newness of a relationship. time goes by, arguments are ignored, babies are made then you're stuck. then yall get a bright idea to get married omg!! both or one of yall know yall don't feel right about it but be like well they all I got..umm! Marrying the wrong guy starts with dating the wrong guy! Women of all ages settle in their relationships. They know the guy is wrong from the start, yet they remain in the relationship. Why do they do it? I know
• Loneliness and insecurity-Believing that the relationship is the solution to their problems
• External pressures to get married-Thinking that “he will fix me” or “I will fix him”
• Ignoring red flags and gut feelings

I SAY forget that go with your heart and mind together. If they both aren't agreeing, it's time to get a damn dog or fish, it's cool to have a sex buddy. its definitely cheaper. shhhh I know as much as I trick off money on dates trying court someone who will be out my life in 3 months..lol! Just be real with each other.