WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT TO HEAR LADY???

I consider myself a realist, and a situation that confuses me is one that I feel is experienced all around the world. that situation arrives when a man finds a woman attractive but doesn't want to be a couple. Ladies always say they want a man to be honest with them and to be 100% real. The thing is when we "real" men practice honesty we get the label of disrespectful or dog. No matter how we communicate our motives we get pushed underneath the line. What do we do then? We reexamine the rejection, come up with the conclusion that it is easier to get close to a lady tell choice lies and woo them until we get them comfortable enough to give us what we wanted in the beginning. The thing that sticks out then is the fact that we still don't want a relationship. Now we get tired of the sex, or want to move on. Females then become victims of the hit it and quit it stigma. (By this point in my blog men at least should relate to what I'm saying and know where I'm going with this.)
Men what do you think of what I have to say? Do you experience the same things? Ladies what's the correct way of coming at you when we know that we aren't out looking for a girlfriend? or better yet ladies is it wrong to you all to even want such a situation? Is it viewed as immature thinking? one female told me that it is, and I challenged her to teach me the right way, or show me the light. Needless to say she wasn't able to do it and continued to beat around the George Bush! SO SOUND OFF?????

Freshiano- THATS THE WAY ITS GOTTA BE

Brand New Hot Ish the New Face of Cleveland "Freshiano" Kitchen Entertainment! "Thats the way its gotta be" Coming at you cats with new hot ish every day Im DAME4PRESIDENT Enjoy...

Why settle! Have fun for now! Smh!!

I'M TIRED of people getting in relationships all the time just to say they got a mate. I'm not gone lie I've done it also, but at some point you got to grow the hell up. Get some common sense damn. I mean most of the time good sex is supposed to be just that. Just because a female/male is attractive doesn't mean yall supposed to be together.lol. this is what happens. You think to yourself, damn he/she fine and the sex was great or the head was great I want to be with them, then yall get all caught up in the newness of a relationship. time goes by, arguments are ignored, babies are made then you're stuck. then yall get a bright idea to get married omg!! both or one of yall know yall don't feel right about it but be like well they all I got..umm! Marrying the wrong guy starts with dating the wrong guy! Women of all ages settle in their relationships. They know the guy is wrong from the start, yet they remain in the relationship. Why do they do it? I know
• Loneliness and insecurity-Believing that the relationship is the solution to their problems
• External pressures to get married-Thinking that “he will fix me” or “I will fix him”
• Ignoring red flags and gut feelings

I SAY forget that go with your heart and mind together. If they both aren't agreeing, it's time to get a damn dog or fish, it's cool to have a sex buddy. its definitely cheaper. shhhh I know as much as I trick off money on dates trying court someone who will be out my life in 3 months..lol! Just be real with each other.

LeBron James to M.I.A

Well, well, well . He has made his decision. I felt in my heart he was leaving. I
respect it troche wants to win, as do all people who are competitive. People keep saying he will never be MJ,MAGIC,KOBE,ETC...I know dumb his name is LeBron he will write his own history. I support him and his new team. I'm ready to watch.